Most people out there do not know how to handle a “Speed Bump” in a relationship. The objective in a relationship is to build a partnership that will enable you to collectively work through a situation as a team.
Unfortunately most people don’t get the opportunity to build a partnership in their relationship before they hit their first Speed Bump and with no system of trust and team work, they find themselves on opposite ends still trying to figure each other out and ultimately putting a wedge between them.
I say this because I am relating this way of how some people respond to relationships in life to the MC life. No matter if it is a personal intimate one on one relationship with a significant other or a relationship a man has with his motorcycle club. If a man is known to shut down and bounce everytime he runs into a problem with a chick he is dating, there is a good chance he will do the same thing to his club. Some people just find it easier to quit and run than to stand and fight.
You best know that at some point in life you will be challenged on where do your feelings actually stand for who you claim you love.
The challenge is not so direct as you being challenged against another person but you being challenged against yourself. Are you relationship ready? Do you know how to rebuild, fix, forgive, listen, apply, create and make better? Or is it easier for you to just bounce?
Nobody wants to engage into a relationship with a coward, a club hopper, a friend hopper.
So make sure to check that persons resume when you find someone new trying to make their way to your circle.
This applies to Males & Females all Races.
ON A SERIOUS NOTE MOTORCYCLE CLUB RELATED::
Do your research and homework on every potential member that makes his way to your club. Taking someone into your club that was KICKED OUT BAD from another club just might not be a smart thing.
Trust me. The longer you in this MC lifestyle and you around the right people, you will learn the right way and the ONLY way.
THIS LIFESTYLE HAS ROOM FOR ABSOLUTELY NO MISTAKES!!!
**PAY YOUR DUES
**OWN A RUNNING MOTORCYLE
**HAVE DL, INS, REG.
**DON’T FUCK AROUND WITH ANOTHER CLUB BROTHER OL LADY.
**DON’T STEAL FROM THE CLUB.
**DON’T FIGHT YOUR CLUB BROTHER.
**DON’T SPEAK CLUB BUSINESS.
**DON’T BRING NEGATIVE ATTENTION TO THE CLUB.
These are just a few of the major rules that each one of my members must follow and obey.
You might think it’s simple and easy and yes it’s supposed to be, but believe it or not, some people actually fail at a few of these which is a violation that leads to termination.
In case you didn’t know it, the folks you see in motorcycle clubs actually live a more careful law abiding lifestyle than your average civilian. We take careful thought into not breaking the law when your average civilian is out testing the law.
Hope you enjoyed my write up. Thanks for reading. I have no relationships with stupid people. You must know how to read to keep up with me. If you read all of this, click like cause you must be one of the smart people that follow me for the right reasons.
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